For the past few years, we’ve talked endlessly about work-life balance. But while we were trying to create better boundaries between work and life, another boundary quietly disappeared: the one between our digital and analog worlds. We close Teams and open WhatsApp. We stop answering emails and start scrolling Instagram. We leave one screen just to pick up another. Work-life balance still matters, but in an always-connected world, it’s no longer enough.

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Work and Life Are No Longer the Only Two Sides of the Equation

The traditional work-life balance conversation assumes there are two worlds we need to somehow keep in check: work and everything that happens outside of it. But that division feels increasingly disconnected from how we actually live. You can have an incredibly flexible job, finish work at a reasonable hour, take your holidays, work from wherever you want and still spend almost your entire day connected to something. You close your laptop and pick up your phone. You leave Teams and open WhatsApp. You finish reading emails and start reading the news, scrolling social media, checking your bank account, ordering dinner or asking AI a question. Different purpose, same screen.

And this is where I believe the conversation needs to move forward. Technology no longer belongs to the "work" side of work-life balance. It sits right in the middle of both. It follows us from our first alarm in the morning to whatever we watch or scroll through before falling asleep. Increasingly, AI is entering that space too, not only helping us work but helping us decide, plan, choose, organize and consume. None of this is inherently bad. I owe an enormous part of my own freedom to technology. But we need to recognize that leaving work is no longer the same thing as disconnecting. You can have excellent work-life balance on paper and still give your brain almost no real break from the digital world.

That's why I believe we're missing a third dimension. The question isn't only how much of our lives we give to work. It's how much of our lives we give to screens.

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We’re Not Just Overworked. We’re Overstimulated.

Here, it gets interesting, because we tend to blame work for exhaustion almost automatically. Too many hours, too many meetings, too many emails. And yes, all of that matters. But what happens after work? We close the laptop after eight hours (lucky you, if it's only eight!) of processing information and immediately open Instagram. We watch Netflix while answering WhatsApp messages, check the news in between, order something online and somehow end the evening wondering why our brains still feel busy. We call it "switching off," but very often we've simply switched screens.

And we're already seeing what constant digital stimulation looks like at work. Microsoft found that employees using Microsoft 365 are interrupted by a meeting, email or notification every two minutes during core working hours, while 48% of employees say their work feels chaotic and fragmented. Outside work, the competition for our attention continues - Deloitte estimates that Americans already spend around six hours a day on media and entertainment alone.

And now AI is adding another layer. We can generate more, read more, summarize more, communicate faster and produce in minutes what previously took hours. That's amazing, and I use these possibilities myself every single day. But our brains haven't suddenly received a software update to match that speed. There is still a limit to how much information we can absorb, process and make sense of.

So while everyone is celebrating how much more technology allows us to produce, maybe we should pay equal attention to the human being expected to consume all of it. We're building technology that can scale information almost infinitely.

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Unfortunately, human attention doesn't scale with it.

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AI Should Reduce Cognitive Load, Not Replace Human Awareness

I would like to draw a very clear line. I love technology when it removes friction from my life. Let AI summarize a 100-page document, analyze thousands of data points, automate repetitive administration or give me back three hours I would otherwise spend on something completely mechanical. That's progress I can get behind.

What I find much harder to embrace is the growing idea that technology should also manage the most basic parts of being human. We already have apps reminding us to drink water, watches telling us to stand up, sleep apps deciding when we should go to bed, and notifications reminding us to breathe, meditate or spend time outdoors. Add increasingly personalized AI assistants into that equation and we're moving from technology helping us do things to technology continuously telling us what to do.

Of course, these tools can be very useful, and for some people genuinely necessary. That's not the point. The bigger question is how much of our own awareness we actually want to outsource. Do I really want an algorithm to know that I need a walk before I notice it myself? Do I want technology to optimize every meal, conversation, workout, hour of sleep and moment of silence?

Essentially, I don't want technology to replace my life. I want it to replace the parts of my work that don't deserve my life. And to me, that's a very important distinction.

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Digital-First Work Can Create an Analog-First Life

At this stage, the conversation often gets unnecessarily polarized. Either you're excited about technology and want to digitize everything, or you're supposed to escape to a cabin in the woods, delete every app and rediscover some romantic pre-internet existence. I want neither. I love my digital life when I'm working. My career was built online. Remote work gave me freedom over where I live and work, digital tools allow me to collaborate with people across countries every single day, and AI is now helping me do parts of that work faster than I could have imagined only a few years ago.

But that's exactly why I want the other side of my life to remain stubbornly analog. I want to close the laptop and actually feel that I've left something behind. I want to admire the sun or listen to rain my lunch break without turning it into another productivity hack. I want coffee to get cold because the conversation lasted too long. I want dinners without phones sitting next to the plates and places I remember because I was actually looking at them, not because my camera roll tells me I was there.

And well, I believe that employers have a role in making that possible. Offering productivity courses, flexible working hours or remote work means very little if people are still expected to be digitally available from morning until night. Introducing AI means very little if every hour it saves simply becomes another hour available for more output. Companies can't control what people do after work, nor should they, but they absolutely influence whether people finish the day with enough mental space and energy left to actually have a life.

To me, digital-analog balance isn't about using less technology for the sake of it. It's about being much more deliberate about where technology belongs. Let it make work faster, easier and more flexible. Let it remove repetitive tasks and unnecessary friction. But then let people spend the time it gives back doing things that don't need to be measured, optimized, automated or improved.

The more digital our work becomes, the more deliberately we need to protect the space to be analog.

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The Future of Work Needs a New Definition of Balance

This is why I believe digital-analog balance needs to become part of the future-of-work conversation. We spend enormous amounts of time discussing how technology can make people faster, more efficient and more productive. With AI, that conversation has gone into overdrive. But productivity can't be the only measure of progress. If technology saves someone three hours and we immediately fill those three hours with more meetings, more messages and higher expectations, we haven't really given them anything back. We've just made the treadmill move faster. And well, this absolutely shouldn't be the goal.

No, now I don't expect employers to manage people's analog lives. Please don't start measuring "time spent in nature" as the next employee wellness KPI... But there are some very basic things companies can do:

• Let people actually finish work. Flexibility means very little if everyone is expected to remain available all evening.
• Stop turning every saved hour into another hour of output. AI efficiency shouldn't automatically mean more work.
• Cut the digital noise. Not everything needs a meeting, an email, three Teams messages and a follow-up call.
• Give people time to actually think. A calendar packed from morning to evening isn't proof of productivity.
• Use AI for the boring stuff first. Administration, repetitive tasks, unnecessary processes - that's where I'd start.
• Make disconnecting normal. Nobody should feel guilty because they didn't answer a message at 9 p.m.

We have a role in this too. I certainly do. Sometimes it's as simple as closing the laptop and leaving it closed. Eating without scrolling. Going somewhere without tracking it. Having a conversation without putting the phone on the table. Seeing something beautiful and not immediately reaching for the camera.

I'm really not interested in becoming less digital at work - quite the opposite. Give me the technology, the automation, the AI and everything that genuinely makes work better. I just want all of that digital progress to buy us something in return - more space to be human. Technology was supposed to remove human limitations from our work, not turn those limitations into human failures.

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